grudge

Definition

A deep-seated resentment that someone carries like a designer handbag—expensive, burdensome, and weirdly important to their identity. Holding a grudge is basically paying interest on a debt you've decided to never collect.

Example Usage

He's held a grudge against his former business partner for five years, refusing every opportunity to reconcile despite mutual friends' interventions.

Source: General psychology/interpersonal terminology

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