Definition

A gay man whose sexual preferences focus on oral sex, cuddling, and physical affection while excluding anal penetration. A term describing a specific orientation preference within the broader LGBTQ+ community.

Example Usage

He mentioned on his dating profile that he's a side gay and prefers other forms of intimacy.

Source: Urban Dictionary (https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=side%20gay&defid=17321028)

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