avoidant

Definition

An attachment style characterized by emotional distance, independence, discomfort with vulnerability, and a tendency to minimize intimacy or seek independence in relationships. Avoidant individuals often struggle with emotional expression and may suppress their own needs.

Example Usage

His avoidant attachment style means he pulls away whenever things get emotionally intense.

Origin

From psychological attachment theory; the term 'avoidant attachment' was formally defined by Mary Ainsworth in the 1970s.

Fun Fact

Avoidant attachment is not the same as introversion; avoidantly attached people may be social but emotionally distant.

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